I was watching American Idol last night, and my dad happened to be sitting out in the living room as well. Katharine was singing, and my dad suddenly went “she’ll look even better if she was a bit slimmer”. -.- I know that was just an innocent comment, but what’s with men anyway, and the notion that slimmer = prettier? I think Katharine’s really pretty, and though she may not be the slimmest person in the world (she’s not fat either - she looks perfectly fine the way she is), but so what? At least she can sing, and she doesn’t look anorexic like some other people out there. If she was much skinner who knows whether she can sing the way she does today.
I don’t understand why society embraces the kind of thinking where slimmer = prettier. Is that always true? On many occasions this is what drives people who feel insecure about their body or weight to eat less, start on all sorts of dieting programmes and whatnot. To “look better”! Some even go to the extent where they end up being anorexic or bulimic, which is really sad.
Even to people who say that it doesn’t matter what others think, and that as long as you’re of an acceptable weight you’ll be fine, that you don’t have to be slim by the media’s standards to look good, can we say that we have not been the slightest bit influenced by the slimmer = better kind of thinking? From time to time I find myself thinking that I shouldn’t be eating so much when I think of snacking (especially when it’s late at night), or sometimes be like “oh my goodness look at all my increasing amount of fats!”. And then you know, people around you will say that “hello, you’re not fat! look who’s talking here” or some variation of that. If you say that when you’re around your friends that is. And I know that i’m certainly not the only one that says things like these! ;)
Anyway, back to talking about American Idol, I shall not spoil the results for those who are only going to watch the replay tonight. I would have been glad with the results either way, because I like both Katharine and Taylor. I would say I like Katharine slightly more (don’t know why either), but Taylor has something special about him, and he’s done better on the performances.
Was watching Clay’s appearence and performace on the results show, and I realised that despite having not listened to his songs for quite a while, I still really do like his voice. It’s got this certain effect on me that I can’t really put in words. Hmm.